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What makes Mr. Darcy desirable?

Here’s my simple question: when did we come to believe that Darcy was sexy?

The popular image of Jane Austen’s Fitzwilliam Darcy today is Colin Firth, with his wet clinging shirt, later immortalized by a giant statue.

Photo credit: “Mr. Darcy in the lake at Lyme Park.” Copyright Philip Halling CC BY-SA 2.0

In 1940 we had Laurence Olivier, with his dapper coat, gleaming eyes, and smoldering charm.

In Curtis Sittenfeld’s new novel, Eligible, Darcy is introduced as “tall, dark, and handsome.” Arrogant and irresistible, Darcy has become one of the great sex symbols of our culture.

But Austen didn’t imagine him that way. We don’t, in fact, have a very clear sense of what he looked like. He is introduced with a “fine, tall person, handsome features, noble mien,” but this sentence concludes that that his bad manners give him “a most forbidding, disagreeable countenance.” The description holds both options in suspension at opposite ends, preventing us from reaching any conclusion and thereby discouraging us from assigning the issue much importance.

Photo credit: Laurence Olivier in “Pride and Prejudice,” 1940. Public domain via Wikimedia Commons.

However, most Jane Austen heroes are not particularly attractive. At best they might be like Bingley, “good looking and gentlemanlike.” But on the other hand, they might look like Edward Ferrars, who has “no peculiar graces of person or address. He was not handsome, and his manners required intimacy to make them pleasing.” Any experienced Austen reader knows that handsome, charismatic young men are dangerous. Avoid Willoughby, Henry Crawford, Frank Churchill. Go for their boring elders: Colonel Brandon, Edmund Bertram, Mr. Knightley. Familiar men, neighbors and relations, are the ideal marital choices.

This makes sense. When a woman married in the eighteenth or nineteenth century, she consigned herself wholly into a man’s power. The moment she married, she ceased to be a legal person of her own. With no right to custody, no capacity to keep any money she earned, no legal capacity to sign her name to any contract, and no possibility of divorce, she was absolutely dependent on the man she had chosen for her entire lifetime. So a prudent woman would do some research to make sure she wasn’t entrusting herself to a scoundrel: research his history, assess his credentials.

Lizzie accomplishes these goals at Pemberley. The housekeeper informs her that ever since he was four years old, Darcy has been a kind man, a loving brother, and a benevolent employer. During Lydia’s elopement, Darcy reveals himself willing to sacrifice himself for the Bennetts. He proves himself a useful patron and a valuable ally. His strong advocacy for women and economically disempowered people makes him attractive.

Yes, Darcy is rich, but his wealth will do no good if he is a gambler like Wickham. Yes, Darcy is well-born, but his class will do no good if he uses his status to crush his wife rather than raise her. Yes, Darcy may be handsome, but his appearance may cover a vicious temper. Far more important than wealth, birth, and looks is a moral sensibility that can regulate these traits in a way that will benefit the woman who marries him.

In a rare direct address to the reader, the narrator of Pride and Prejudice congratulates Lizzie on overcoming her tendency to love at first sight. Lizzie has learned at last that “gratitude and esteem [are] good foundations of affection.” The alternative, love at first sight, is so distasteful it can hardly even be named: “what is so often described as arising on a first interview with its object, and even before two words have been exchanged.” Because Lizzie had already found its shortcomings “in her partiality for Wickham,” she finally realizes the superiority of well-founded attachments.

Our ideas of love have changed profoundly since Austen’s time. Austen depicts Lydia as a self-indulgent fool, but in a modern rom-com, Lydia would be the heroine, the girl who risks everything to follow her heart, and Lizzie would be the stuffy conventional elder sister who tries to keep her down. Today, erotic attraction has become the basis for marriage, so we designate Darcy as ultra-marriageable through a different set of markers than Austen used. Moreover, film is a visual medium, encouraging us to enjoy precisely the kind of “regard. . . arising on a first interview with its object” (particularly when that object is wearing a wet shirt). By comparison, the slow accumulation of a long history of worthy acts is the kind of history that the novel can do, and that this novel does.

In one sense, it’s fine to ogle Darcy; why shouldn’t modern viewers enjoy him in our own way? However, we should realize that seeing Darcy as desirable is anachronistic – and also completely at odds with the work of this novel. We haven’t yet had the film that shows the thousand small acts of substantive kindness that added up to a life, but it is his life, not his shirt, that makes Darcy a man one would want in 1813. And for a vulnerable woman, finding a safe match is worth acclaim, even though it is harder to erect a statue to it in the lake.

Featured image: “Pride and Prejudice” by Mike Kniec, CC BY 2.0 via Flickr.

Recent Comments

  1. Kellynch

    I still prefer David Rintoul as Darcy. He is, to me, at least, the Darcy of Austen’s novel. Firth is the Darcy of Andrew Davies’ script.

    But, that said, you all can keep Darcy. I’m a Wentworth girl through and through.

  2. S. R.

    We get to know Colin Firth’s Darcy over 6 episodes and the same ‘slow accumulation of a long history of worthy acts’. Firth wasn’t a heart-throb prior to this adaptation and is shot through most of the show as you describe with ‘bad manners’ and a ‘disagreeable countenance.’
    Darcy is only presented as ‘erotic attraction’ in the wet shirt at the end of episode 4 after Elizabeth’s visit to Pemberley and after she, and the audience, have got to know his character better – that’s why the moment has so much power.
    I think the reason that so many modern viewers rewatch this adaption is the whole development you describe, not simply Firth in a wet shirt.

  3. Christina Boyd

    I have forever a weakness for attractive, rich, powerful men who change their “wicked ways” for the love of a woman. Am definitely a sufferer of the Darcy Complex.

  4. Rebecca

    Of the 6 major books, Henry Tilney of NA is the only leading man who really risks anything monetary to be with the one he loves. The others risk embarrassment and rejection but not fortune. I like them all, but Henry is my favorite.

  5. Lyndsay

    I’m in agreement with Rebecca. Although I adore Darcy, there’s something about Tilney’s wit and willingness to sacrifice that always brings me back to him.

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